Whenever my husband leaves the house, I always call out “I love you!” to him. If something terrible happened, that will always be the last thing I ever said to him.
The last thing I said to my late ex was “For fuck’s sake, at least *TRY* to pull yourself together.” A week later he killed himself.
Make sure “I love you” is always what you say to people as you or they depart, even if you’ve come to hate them.
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